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True or False Signs a Shy Guy Likes You, Revealed

Get into the mind of a shy guy and learn once and for all what he’s thinking. Learn the true or false signs and find out if he likes you.

Shy guys are a species of their own. Up is down, down is up, they are indecisive when they are certain and quiet when they want to be heard. If dating was poker, shy guys would be very difficult to read. Unless of course, you know the rules and signs a shy guy likes you.

You have to understand that most shy guys suffer from low self-esteem. They can be popular in their group of friends. They can be athletic, good looking and still be shy with girls they don’t know.

They could have come from a poor family environment. Or they might have had some unpleasant experiences in their childhood, which has caused this low self-confidence.

We will discuss the myths and the truths about shy guys. Some of the stuff you’ve read about shy guys is complete garbage. Here is the truth:

True or false signs a shy guy likes you

A shy guy stares and looks away if he likes you

TRUE. A shy guy will look in your direction if he is attracted to you. He will stare at you. As soon as you look back, he will look away in embarrassment.

The way a shy guy’s mind works

If you catch the shy guy looking in your direction, simply smile. The smile will be welcoming and it might ease their tension.

She is really beautiful, I really like her…if she was my girlfriend I’d be so happ-oh crap she’s noticed I’m staring at her, I better look away!
Oh man, now she’s going to think I’m the creepy guy that stares at her. I’ll never date her; she’s out of my league. She’s way too pretty to be with me.
I’m going to look at her to make sure she’s not looking at me. Ok good, she’s back to doing whatever it is she was doing in the first place. Boy this is embarrassing, I don’t even have the courage to talk to her. What would I say? She’s really, really beautifu-oh crap! She looked back again.
Ok no more looking at her…

Shy guy’s put themselves down unintentionally. If you catch the shy guy looking in your direction, simply smile. The smile will be welcoming and it might ease their tension.

A shy guy will avoid talking to you if he likes you

Shy guys have a difficult time believing that someone likes them.

TRUE. This is what makes shy guys very confusing. If a shy guy likes you and feels as though you are onto him, he will simply avoid you. Shy guys have a difficult time believing that someone likes them, or would like to date them. They think that you are trying to embarrass them. For this reason, they will play dumb and even avoid you.

Shy guys talk to their friends about you

FALSE. Most shy guys keep their crushes a secret. His diary or notebook might have some clues about his secret crush, while his friends will know nothing about it.

A shy guy will do any favor for you

They are too shy to pull the trigger and ask you out.

TRUE. Most shy guys will do just about anything you ask them to, in order to have some sort of interaction with you. Over time, shy guys will slip under the radar and go directly to the friend zone. They are too shy to pull the trigger and ask you out.

A shy guy appears at the same places as you, if he likes you

TRUE. If you are a waitress or working in retail, you may notice a shy guy always lingering about. This is definitely one of the signs a shy guy likes you. Say hi and get the conversation going.

A shy guy will be lost for words if he likes you

TRUE. If you do get the conversation going, you’ll notice that he may be lost for words. You may ask a question, he may give you a one-word answer. Other times, the shy guy may begin to talk faster than usual.

A shy guy may try to touch you if he likes you

FALSE. This is true for social butterflies and charmers. These individuals are very friendly and charismatic. They will try and touch you to build comfort. A shy guy, on the other hand, will NOT try to touch you in order to be less obvious about his feelings.

When do shy guys get embarrassed?

If a shy guy likes you, he will get embarrassed if you find out.

Shy guys get embarrassed when their motives are recognized by others. If a shy guy likes you, he will get embarrassed if you find out. Regardless if the feeling is mutual, a shy guy may feel uneasy about the situation.

Every shy guy wants to talk to the person they have a crush on. Their shyness gets in the way of this. They may even start to avoid you because they’ll feel embarrassed.

You can avoid this mess by being friendly and saying, hi. Smile, and be welcoming. They’ll open up and start talking to you once they are feeling comfortable.

Things shy guys won’t admit

Shy guys won’t admit they have a crush on you. A shy guy may be in love with you, but if you ask them:

“Do you like me?”

They may answer with something ridiculous, like:

“No not really, you’re like a sister to me”

They’ll say anything to hide their true feelings. If you encounter something like that ridiculous example, fire back with:

“That’s a shame, because I really like you” (smile)

This will open them right up.

Remember to be friendly, smile and engage the conversation. Shy guys are a whole other species; but once they become comfortable, they’ll come out of their shell and show you the wonderful person within.