How to Attract a Man in 5 Easy Steps

How to Attract a Man in 5 Easy Steps

You’re out with your girlfriends, single and ready to mingle, but there’s a problem – NO guys are approaching you. The lounge/bar or club is filled with single men, but instead of coming over and saying, “Hi” they just stand around like lifeless statues. Perhaps you’re just not as approachable as you may think. We’ll give you the 5 easy steps on how to attract a man.

These 5 steps will be your guideline to a better you. They will make men magnetize towards you; they will make you more confident and they’ll significantly improve other aspects of your life.

How to attract a man, the 5 step checklist:

Maintain a genuine SMILE
Reach your POTENTIAL

Go out in smaller groups

Large groups of women can be quite intimidating for guys. Even if you feel that a man is looking at you from afar and you are certain he is interested, he won’t come over to a table with 11 girls.

You may be discouraged to talk to him by a jealous girlfriend. So keep the groups limited between 2 and 3.

Maintain eye contact

This is one of the greatest tips on how to attract a man. The key here is DON’T BE SHY to LOOK at him. Guys love it when a woman makes eye contact. Tilt your head down slightly and give him a confident look, like a confident woman – not like a scared little girl who’s trying not to get caught.

A great tip to keep in mind is that you should

Look at him as if you’re in slow motion.

Slow motion is smooth and sexy as opposed to the unattractive jittery movements of a coward. When combined with a smile, it’s a DEADLY combination that will make other men WISH you were looking at them instead.

Maintain a genuine smile

A great smile can melt anyone’s heart instantly.

The smile is one of the most underrated tools of attraction.

We forget to use it yet it’s always there. A smile will make you more attractive and it will also make you feel good. It is one of the best ‘how to attract a man’ methods available. So smile; smile at everyone – when you’re at the lounge or in the supermarket. You will feel great and you will make everyone else feel great as well.

Reach your potential

This is one of the greatest tips on how to attract men, or people in general. This method works for both men and women. Ask yourself,

“Have I reached my potential?”

It is true that looking good will lead to feeling good. Are you in the best mood in your life? Are you in the best shape in your life? Are you the healthiest you’ve ever been? All of these things are connected. Taking care of yourself will make you look good, feel great and become healthier. Feeling great will also make you appear more attractive. You will be in a great mood all the time.

Watch what you eat

Forget about a diet; make a conscious life-change.

You should be your #1 priority!

We all have a sweet tooth, but keep it in moderation. That fast food, mini-doughnuts and soft drinks will be the death of you. Save that stuff for the weekends and keep your Monday – Friday healthy.

Working out and being active is fantastic. It will make you healthier and it’s a great stress release. You don’t need to spend 2 hours at the gym each day. If you keep up the intensity, 60min/3 times-a-week is more than enough: 25min toning exercises with 45min cardio (light pace jog or elliptical).

Don’t make an excuse about your busy schedule, and make it a priority. Forget about logging into Facebook or Tweeting something irrelevant. So MAKE the time to become a BETTER you.

The article is over, start reaching your potential NOW!


3 comments posted
We've arrevid at the end of

We've arrevid at the end of the line and I have what I need!

Posted by Guest on Mon, 02/08/2016 - 17:34
You hit the nail on the head

You hit the nail on the head with these points. I think as long as you put yourself in social situations where there are lots of men around and you follow these points, you will have more men wanting to go on a date with you than you can handle. Sometimes that can be a bad thing though :) I am actually reading Obsession Phrases and It's really made my dating life a hellava a lot interesting. Anybody heard of it yet?

Posted by Guest on Wed, 01/28/2015 - 12:38
Great article, the first

Great article, the first point is really important, guys will not approach big groups, I personally think that the ideal number for a group is 3, so if a guy comes to talk to you, your 2 friends can keep each other company.

Make Him Desire You

Posted by Guest on Mon, 10/14/2013 - 10:47

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