How to Tell if a Guy Likes You in 5 Easy Steps

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You’re in a social environment with a friend. It is a fun evening and you feel great. Across from you is a group of people, they’re talking, laughing and they seem to be having a great time. Something catches your eye, you look up and you see a guy looking your way. It was too quick of a glance to pass judgment. Your friend is still yapping away but you have more important things occurring in your environment right now.

You noticed this guy earlier and you think he noticed you. You are unsure about how to deal with the situation; you’ve been in it before. Could this be wishful thinking or a wondering imagination? Your eyes met for a moment and it felt real, but you looked away. When you look back at him, he’s talking with other people. How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so difficult to read?

If you’ve ever been in a situation where you weren’t sure if a guy likes you or not, then this article is for you. Here are a few how to tips on finding out if a guy likes you.

5 tips on how to tell if a guy likes you

  • Find out what he said – Is he interested and does he like you? If you are fortunate enough to have mutual friends, find out what he said asap! He may play it cool by asking:

    “Who is that girl?”

    “Where is she from?”

    If he asks anything along those lines, you can be sure he likes you. He may ask those questions in a nonchalant manner as if he is just curious, but in reality he is showing interest.

    If he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he is probably hoping it will get back to you. You see, most guys won’t have the courage to tell a girl to her face how they feel, no matter how confident they appear. Deep down all guys fear rejection and failure.
  • His eyes tell a thousand words – When your eyes do meet, don’t look away. The next few seconds may feel like years, you may get goose pimples all over your body as he is sweeping you off of your feet. If his long gaze is followed by a smile you can bet your meal he’s into you.
  • What is he saying – When you are having a conversation, find out what his words really mean. This is the best way to tell if a guy likes you. He is slowly building up to the question of “are you taken” and he hopes the answer is “no”. If it doesn’t come up in conversation, he may have asked a mutual friend.
  • Stalker or shy guy – He may start popping up out of the blue, like a case of uncontrollable diarrhea. You may see him start to appear more often. He will probably play the cool, nonchalant card as if he doesn’t notice you. Stop him and say hello. He may turn red and keep the conversation to a minimum to act as though he isn’t interested. Look at his eyes; he can't control his dilated pupils. If he’s nervous he likes you.
  • Be positive – Like the old saying goes, positive things happen to positive thinkers. If you’re positive and happy, why wouldn’t he like you? If you feel down and blue, then this is the perfect time to change yourself for the better! Work on your career goals, body image and other future plans. Work on your strengths and let your best self shine through.

Those are the 5 tips on how to tell if a guy likes you. Don’t just read into this as theory, but rather go out and apply it to the next guy that gives you a positive vibe. You never know when Mr. Right is around the corner.

Remember to be friendly and make it easier for him to talk with you. Be friendly, be happy and smile. Good Luck!


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